the dating game theme music - Become less intimidating men
This isn’t to say that there’s something wrong with being high-energy or being a tomboy, just that there can be a fine line between being energetic and outgoing and being obnoxious.
I have been told several times now that I am an intimidating person. I certainly have not..have had the same kind of accusations in the past.
When I ask them to explain (since I don't see it myself) I get things like "you're very confident", "you're self-aware", “you’re very assertive", and "you're too blunt". There are too many people out there that lie or sugar coat things that shouldn't be. If they can't take my personality, then I simply wish them the best of luck finding what they are looking for.
There is no reason why you should try to force yourself to be someone you’re not in order to meet somebody else’s criteria.
Now, that having been said: you want to consider toning down your behavior somewhat.
Women who have nerdy interests are frequently less traditionally “feminine”.
Some were tomboys growing up and take pride in being one of the guys.
I love who I am and when there is someone or something I want I go for it, making me aggressive as well. No harm done, no hurt feelings...besides you can't please everybody!!!
Not too long ago I "scared" away a guy I liked by being too aggressive. You will find a group that will definitely accept you!! Everybody here was dead on, I think its great you're honest and no B.
He may be overwhelmed by the force of her personality and worry that he will be forced to be the inferior partner in the relationship.
Or he may just be the sort of person who prefers a quieter, demure, more “feminine” personality. While there are plenty who can appreciate an outgoing partner – one who would compliment them, be the yang to their yin – more are likely to feel steamrolled by someone so dominant.
If he doesn’t have the self-esteem or confidence to get past the power differential – and beauty looking for someone better.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating