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But it doesn’t have to be isolating and it is not shameful. We all readily agree with the diagnosis that alcoholism is a disease, that addiction is a disease, yet…Society blames the one who is sick, punishing and pushing him. After all, why didn’t they do something to prevent it?
In addition, the family should extricate themselves from their loved one's recovery path, as each of us are too close to the other to really be of a neutral or unbiased benefit when it comes to help and advice.
Slice number three is about schedules and commitments.
The second slice of a clean and sober existence would be some therapy to help a loved one in recovery deal with some deep-seeded, personal and emotional conflicts that may be stuffed somewhere deep down inside.
Possibly issues of feeling less than might have stemmed from childhood, that only self-medicating would temporarily wipe away those demons.
In addition, I felt that my client might be put in front of an imaginary firing squad as the alcoholic can so easily say "Okay, now that I'm clean and sober, you do this to me, or you say that and that's why I drink." That's not fair, and the more the alcoholic/addict is grounded in their recovery, they won't need to or want to or be interested in playing the blame game.
In conclusion, your pie can be bigger or smaller than mine.Life presents a myriad of ups and downs regardless of if one is in recovery or not.The recovering alcoholic/addict has to learn to brace themselves to these new bumps in the road and not run to self-medicate because they are frightened, frustrated or confused.He told me that after a week or two of her residency he needed to attend couples counseling. He reported that she had some issues with their marriage: communication, expectations and intimacy, etc.I applauded that this was on the docket but questioned the timing as it seemed very premature to tackle anything other than the alcoholic/addict learning to deal with their own issues of addiction and recovery.Shared responsibilities for behavior issues or giving and taking in a relationship are very important to start to work on and maybe even heal.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating